Why did you return?
Why did you return to Greece?
In 2011, I left Greece for Ireland with my wife. We lived there for about twelve years, experiencing some of the best years of our lives.
- I advanced my career from a mid-level backend developer to a solutions architect, a principal engineer, and eventually, a co-founder of a technology company.
- I co-founded Ardanis, a digital software consultancy, and helped grow the company for over eight years.
- Both our daughters were born in Dublin.
- We even bought a house near Dublin.
Yet, at some point, we decided to return to Greece.
When I tell people in Greece about my return, the response is almost always the same:
Why did you return?
The question usually carries an undertone suggesting that Greece is inferior—a place not worth coming back to if you’ve lived in a well-run, prosperous country. But for me, the answer was more complex.
Yes, my profession allows me to work remotely, and many Greeks with similar opportunities choose to stay abroad. But what I found abroad was always almost fulfilling, like music playing slightly off-key. The real meaningful moments always felt just beyond reach—a cheap flight away.
The thought of returning to Greece lingered, always quietly waiting. Over the years, I watched friends move back to their homelands—Poland, Cyprus, Hungary, Portugal. If they could return, why couldn’t I? Greece, despite its issues, is not a dangerous place; there is no war, no fear of violence.
A few years before deciding to return, I discovered two practices that profoundly shaped my thinking: Meditation and Stoicism
Through Stoicism, I learned to listen to my inner voice—the ήγεμονικόν. Meditation then helped me amplify that voice.
One morning, during my usual meditation session in the quiet of our attic, I opened my eyes, and a message arrived in my mind, unbidden and unmistakable:
You are moving back to Greece.
It wasn’t just a thought—it felt like a truth revealed, as if someone had simply stated a fact, and now I knew it with certainty.
Six months later, after preparations and farewells, we were back in Greece.
Now that I’ve been here for two years, let me share why I made this choice.
I returned for
- My parents, to be there for them, and my kids’ grandparents, while they are still around.
- My sister and her family
- My friends
- My relatives
- My kids to start Greek school and learn our heritage and culture.
- My father-in-law’s wine
- My mother-in-law’s pastitsio
- The protection and support of my circle which dampened my anxiety and helped eliminate my panic attacks.
- Friendship
- The Greek lifestyle
- The discussions on philosophy with Mr. Kyriakos, the bookshop owner.
- The impromptu coffee/tavern outings where we get to discuss interesting topics.
- Greek food, veggies, and delicious fruits.
- The people I meet that invite me for coffee despite just meeting them.
- 5Γ
- The sea
- The summers
- The nature and Mount Olympus to which I have instant access.
- The 100km of sandy beaches that we don’t know what to do with them in Pieria
- The walks by the sea with the family in the purple lit, summer sunsets.
- My hometown and county that the universe blessed in more than one way.
- Katerini and Thessaloniki
- Chalkidiki
- The things I find meaningful in life
- The fact that we don’t live forever
In order to truly understand why I returned, you would need to spend a decade abroad. Only by losing something can you fully appreciate what you once had.
So that’s why I returned.
But our journey here has just begun, and who knows what lies ahead?
I'm still getting this question 😅 I know how is this feeling, It's the same, but in a different circumstance. You made the right choice!